Universal Law
#4
“The Law of
Allowing”
The Law of Allowing — allowing things to move without resistance and to
evolve and grow naturally.
This is one of my most favorite laws and I think one of the
most important Universal Laws. Most people really struggle with this one,
however, since we’ve been trained to think differently for most of our lives.
The Law of Allowing
dictates that all Universal Energy runs in currents and these currents have a
flow to them.
• When you allow the Universal flow to
evolve and grow naturally, things will begin to manifest in a fluid non-chaotic
manner.
• You are allowing the Universe to
create and manifest freely with no interference.
• This law feels the most unnatural to most people because our
brain is not “trained” to allow. We’ve been trained to think that allowing is being lazy.
• The state of allowing is the purest state of manifesting.
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This law is really, really hard for people to wrap their
minds around. Many times we (as people living a physical existence) have been
trained to believe we must try and take control of every situation in order to
control the outcome of what it is we desire. We have been taught to believe
that without our guidance or control, things will not happen in the way we wish
them to.
We must control our
destiny!
The problem with this perspective and needing to have
control is you’re under the impression that you know what the best possible
outcome is. I hate to break the news to you, but you do not…
We are children of the Universe, and while we have our own
ideas of how we think things must be
done and in what order, Momma always knows best. The reason we can’t make this
determination is because there’s such an abundance of ways in which the outcome
we desire can take place, and many of them you don’t even know about! Many
times the outcome the Universe has in mind is much better than the outcome we
have dreamt up for ourselves. How can
this be? You may wonder. It’s really fairly simple…
We do not have enough
information to determine the best possible outcome for our desires.
We usually base our desired outcome on our physical
perspective. From a physical perspective, our perspective is usually extremely limited. We are like
kindergartners trying to access our desires.
So how do you work with this law?
• By accepting that you don’t always know the best possible
outcome.
• By realizing that control is only an illusion and you will never be able to
control anything, any situation, or anyone without consent. In actuality, there
is no control, there’s only consent.
• By being open to what might come your way.
• By learning to let go of control and
allow things to develop and unfold naturally for you the way they are supposed
to.
Imagine there’s an abundance of Universal Energy, which is
in constant creation. This energy is in constant flow, continuously creating
and manifesting an infinite number of things at every given moment in time. The
world and the people in it are a blank canvas to this Universal Energy, and
when you allow this flow to create and manifest with it’s own vision in mind,
something amazing happens.
This energy seems to
be able to merge with your most intimate desires and manifest them right before
your eyes!
It’s amazing how all things become so carefully orchestrated
that it allows everything to fall into place so precisely. It’s as if you are
watching the most incredible artistic flow you’ve ever seen, manifesting itself
into a physical state.
However, when you’re unaware of The Law of Allowing, fear tends to drive your thoughts and
you begin working with The Law of Resistance (next chapter), which is a law
that is fear driven.
This can most definitely cause an issue with your love life.
What’s the number one concern of most people when it comes to love?
It’s the fear of
being alone.
Oddly enough, this fear affects most people. It affects
people who are single, for obvious reasons. They’re currently alone and don’t
wish to stay that way. But it also very much affects people who are in unhappy
or are in unfulfilling relationships.
More importantly, it
affects the choices people may otherwise make if it wasn’t for the fear of
being alone.
This fear can and
will affect The Law of Allowing.
People tend to make very bad choices based on fear and force
themselves to stay in or choose relationships which are neither healthy nor a
good fit for them. For instance, thought patterns based on fear go like this:
• “This relationship is so hard, but we’ve been together forever,
and I hate to throw it all away.”
• “We fight so much, but when we get along, it’s really great.”
• “I think it’s best to stay together for the kids.”
• “This is what marriage is supposed to be like, no point in doing
it all over again.”
These are all thoughts based on the fear of being alone.
When misery is more tolerable than the thought of being alone, it’s really
pretty sad. When you force yourself to stay in a situation (love or otherwise),
which feels like such a struggle, even when you can choose a different
route…well, that’s definitely the
opposite of The Law of Allowing. It’s like trying to wrestle the paintbrush
out of the Universe’s hand so you can paint a picture of what it is you want or
what it is you think you want.
The problem is your dominant or alpha thought:
• “I’m not happy in this relationship.”
• “I’m miserable with this person.”
• “Relationships suck!”
Basically, if you do win the wrestling match, you’re really
going to be putting graffiti on your wall, and not the pretty kind.
So stop resisting,
don’t be afraid of being alone!
Trust in the flow and the creative power of the Universe, of
something bigger than you. Trust in the notion that you deserve happiness in
everything you do, relationships and otherwise. Trust that out of 7.5 billion people, there’s a very happy person out
in the world you are meant to be with!
Part of the trust factor with The Law of Allowing stems from
the belief that there’s only a limited amount of things in the world and all
good things are already taken, or untouchable by you. Universal Law dictates
this is not true on both accounts.
Unless…you believe it
to be true. (Ahhh, those catch twenty-two’s).
Here’s what I mean:
Physical perspective —
You’ve been taught for so many years how fact is just fact,
based on math. How things are not magical and how Santa Claus is not real. How
life is hard and don’t expect it to be anything different. Thought patterns
such as:
• “They only print so much money. The
earth only has so many resources, this is scientific fact!”
• “There are only XYZ jobs available in
my town, and there are ABC people looking for jobs. You do the math!”
• “How in the world is it possible for
me to get out of my current debt? I have a ton of debt and not enough income
coming in to make a dent in it. I just don’t see it happening.”
Now based on what you’ve been taught and what you based your
knowledge of how you think the world works around you and how money is
obtained, naturally The Law of Allowing would seem silly based on this
perspective. There’s just simply not enough money, jobs, etcetera to serve
everyone. So therefore, control is the alternative, so you think.
Universal perspective
—
Some people never truly believed these things they were taught,
because there’s also a bazillion instances of people who live quite amazing
lives, people who statistically should not (according to the math and other
things they've been taught thus far), and so they’ve decided those things must
not be true.
• These people work quite nicely with The Law of Allowing.
• They
will find their groove with the purest state of manifesting, just because they
don’t share the same view as the rest of the world!
Amazing, isn’t it? They don’t resist the notion of money,
jobs, or material things being in their reach, because their internal view is
different. Anything they desire is reachable.
Anything is possible,
anything is allowable!
They don’t resist the notion of where they can make an
income, or how things might work out well for them, despite what everyone else
says or thinks. They think things like:
• “Well, they need someone for this job, why not me? I’m
qualified!”
• “There’s lots of people in the world
making over 100K a year even in this economic downturn, not everyone is poor.”
• “Some people I know are doing quite
well in life, they’re adaptable, and so am I!”
Think about this for a minute. Let’s say there’s an
abundance of money (The Law of Abundance), a never-ending supply of it. And
this never-ending supply is a river that flows by you at all times.
All you need to do is to allow some of it to flow into your
world and not resist it (by putting up a barrier, or energetic dam around you),
with the notion that it’s true and some of it belongs in your world.
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This may sound weird,
but your relationship with money works in a very similar manner as your
relationship with people.
What is your thought process when it comes to money?
• “It’s not around much, but when it is, we have a good time.”
• “I will take what I can get.” (Low standards when it comes to
what you can get.)
• “It’s always a struggle and it will always be a struggle, that’s
just how it is.”
What’s your dominant or alpha thought?
(You’re taught)
Money’s hard to come by and there’s a limited supply + (belief) I don’t see how it’s possible to be financially
secure = No Money!
You don’t have to see to believe it…
Believe in something
more powerful than what you can see.
Believe in something
bigger than you.
Believe in something …
DIFFERENT than everyone else believes to be true!
Do not follow the masses and resist a better life just
because others have told you it’s not out there. If everyone did that, there
would be no breakthroughs in the medical industry, there would be no spiritual
development, or even past discoveries in the history of the world. Things would
never get better for anyone!
Stop resisting
change, stop thinking you know better.
Trust in the Universe and in the laws that dictate all
things. Allow things to fall into place for you just once, and see what happens.
If you would like to learn more about the Universal Laws you can find more information here:
Universal Laws: 18 Powerful Laws & The Secret Behind Manifesting Your Desires
